Announcements

Becky's occupation

Northfield School of the Liberal Arts
Friends Garden
Sunnydale Community Library

 

 

 

 

Becky's reputation *

In Media Res  — Russel Arben Fox

Letter to Friends Garden-ers: FARM to SCHOOL — Bob Love

for Becky Elder, Meditation XVII by John Donne — Tom Pruit

The Blessing of Becky Elder — Gary Gensch

 

Burial Service Program — Dec 19, 2025

Burial Service Video

Obituary

Memorial Service — Jan 10, 2026

Mom's Eulogy — Bob Elder

Eulogy for Becky - Bill Coleman 

 

* If blog comments are not your thing and you would like to share your own public tribute to Becky with her friends, just contact Bob Love at rwlove51@gmail.com and he will see that it gets posted here.

Events on Saturday, January 10, 2026

2:00pm Eastminster Presbyterian Church, 1958 N Webb Rd, Wichita, KS 67206 

Becky was a PUBLIC persona who made [makes?] everyone feel as if they were [are?] a cherished part of her PRIVATE familia ... because she believed [believes?] in the fatherhood of God and the brotherhood — or in her case motherhood — of mankind :-)

 

Accordingly, the ELDER Family invites WHOSOEVER WILL to come and be part of a ceremonious, communal experience of Becky's permanent presence with us through the sharing of stories and memories — which will evolve then fade in our awareness as they are enlightened then dimmed by the passing of time.

 

If you are unable to attend this event in personam, it will be livestreamed and recorded for viewing later by going to https://eastminster.org/live

Evening Dinner Registration for Travelers & Next-of-Kin

Many will come from afar to remember Becky and TO THEM AS WELL AS KIN the ELDER Family wishes to extend an added and personal invitation to share a meal on the evening of January 10th. We wish we could extend this dinner invitation to everyone, but even Jesus was constrained by and sometimes accepted the physical limitations of an earthly existence ... something Becky has now passed beyond.

So if you are a traveler or kin to Becky and wish to join this smaller group for dinner the evening of January 10th,

PLEASE let us know by CLICKING THIS DINNER REGISTRATION LINK 

to register your anticipated presence and trigger an email communication to you about this dinner as soon as details are available ... or, if you are unable to manage registering via the link, just contact one of your Elder or Love family acquaintances and they will make sure you are registered for and get details about this evening meal.

 

our love to all for sharing and enriching Becky's life in every form it takes,

the Elder Family